{"id":82219,"date":"2023-11-14T11:00:11","date_gmt":"2023-11-14T10:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/?p=82219"},"modified":"2023-11-14T11:04:37","modified_gmt":"2023-11-14T10:04:37","slug":"minden-amit-az-erzelmi-intelligenciarol-tudni-erdemes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2023\/11\/14\/minden-amit-az-erzelmi-intelligenciarol-tudni-erdemes\/","title":{"rendered":"Minden, amit az \u00e9rzelmi intelligenci\u00e1r\u00f3l tudni \u00e9rdemes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nem megmondtam, hogy ne csin\u00e1ld\u2026?!<\/em><\/p>\n

Hogy mi is az, amit nem k\u00e9ne csin\u00e1lni, az mindegy. A mondat m\u00e1sodik fele bor\u00edt\u00e9kolhat\u00f3an \u00edgy folytat\u00f3dik: de te nem hallgatt\u00e1l r\u00e1m, \u00e9s tess\u00e9k, itt az eredm\u00e9ny.<\/em><\/p>\n

Valami\u00e9rt nem m\u0171k\u00f6dik, pedig sz\u00e1zszor is elmondjuk, nevel\u00fcnk, utas\u00edtunk, magyar\u00e1zunk, a m\u00e1sik pedig nem h\u00fclye, \u00e9s m\u00e9gis\u2026 Mi lehet az oka annak, hogy bizonyos dolgok nem m\u0171k\u00f6dnek a \u201emegbesz\u00e9l\u00e9s\u201d szintj\u00e9n?<\/p>\n

Az\u00e9rt, mert sz\u00e1mos dologban az \u00e9rzelmi intelligenci\u00e1nk szerint d\u00f6nt\u00fcnk. M\u00e1rpedig az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia nem magyar\u00e1zat \u00e9s bel\u00e1t\u00e1s \u00e1ltal fejl\u0151dik, hanem tapasztalatok, \u00e1t\u00e9lt \u00e9lm\u00e9nyek \u00e9s azonosul\u00e1sok hat\u00e1s\u00e1ra.<\/p>\n

\u201eHogy egy bizonyos tud\u00e1st mennyire \u00e9p\u00edt\u00fcnk be, nem az ismeretanyag mennyis\u00e9g\u00e9n m\u00falik \u2013 ezt az agykutat\u00e1s m\u00e1r kimutatta. Amit lepecs\u00e9tel\u00fcnk \u00e9rzelmekkel, az jut el a hossz\u00fat\u00e1v\u00fa mem\u00f3ri\u00e1ba, azt tudjuk csak haszn\u00e1lni. Teh\u00e1t azokat az ismereteket, amelyeket birtoklunk, az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia mozgatja\u201d – mondta az \u00c9rdMostnak Uzsalyn\u00e9 dr. P\u00e9csi Rita nevel\u00e9skutat\u00f3, aki cs\u00fct\u00f6rt\u00f6k\u00f6n \u00c9rdre \u00e9rkezik, ahol az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia fejleszt\u00e9s\u00e9r\u0151l tart el\u0151ad\u00e1st.<\/p>\n

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\u201eSok minden az \u00e9rzelmi intelligenci\u00e1hoz tartozik, amir\u0151l azt hissz\u00fck, hogy meg\u00e9rt\u00e9ssel nevelhet\u0151. Az emp\u00e1tia, a tolerancia, a kreativit\u00e1s, a humor, az egy\u00fcttm\u0171k\u00f6d\u00e9s, a vezet\u00e9si k\u00e9szs\u00e9g, a k\u00edv\u00e1ncsis\u00e1g, \u00e9rdekl\u0151d\u00e9s, nyitotts\u00e1g, a rugalmas gondolkod\u00e1s, a kritikai gondolkod\u00e1s, az \u00e9rzelmek felismer\u00e9se \u00e9s kezel\u00e9se\u2026 Alig van az \u00e9letnek olyan ter\u00fclete, ahol nem seg\u00edthet, illetve nem meghat\u00e1roz\u00f3 az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia.\u201d<\/p>\n

„Az EQ nem \u00fagy m\u0171k\u00f6dik, mint az IQ, azaz a kognit\u00edv intelligencia. Az ut\u00f3bbib\u00f3l mindenki kap egy bizonyos mennyis\u00e9get, amit viszonylag k\u00f6nny\u0171 m\u00e9rni. Az \u00e9rzelmi intelligenci\u00e1b\u00f3l nem kapunk ilyet. Mindenki az EQ cs\u00edr\u00e1j\u00e1val sz\u00fcletik, \u00e9s az a k\u00e9rd\u00e9s, mit tesz\u00fcnk vele.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201eLehet, hogy ez a cs\u00edra egyik\u00fcnkben er\u0151sebb, mint a m\u00e1sikunkban, de az EQ alakul\u00e1s\u00e1hoz nagyon nagy m\u00e9rt\u00e9kben hozz\u00e1j\u00e1rul a k\u00f6rnyezet. \u00a0Az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia ugyanis alak\u00edthat\u00f3, fejleszthet\u0151, m\u00e9g feln\u0151tt korban is. Csakhogy nem nem magyar\u00e1zatokkal. Nincs sz\u00fcks\u00e9g k\u00fcl\u00f6nleges eszk\u00f6zt\u00e1rra, felz\u00e1rk\u00f3ztat\u00e1sra, ehelyett rengeteg \u00e9lm\u00e9ny, tapasztalat, \u00e9rzelmi azonosul\u00e1s kell hozz\u00e1\u201d \u2013 hangs\u00falyozta a nevel\u00e9skutat\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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Uzsalyn\u00e9 dr. P\u00e9csi Rita el\u0151ad\u00e1st tart<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201eSajnos, gyermekeinkn\u00e9l kimarad ennek a ter\u00fcletnek a fejleszt\u00e9se. Pedig ez \u00fagy zajlik, mint a mozg\u00e1sfejl\u0151d\u00e9s. Azaz: j\u00e1rni sem meg\u00e9rt\u00e9s-alapon tanulunk meg. Rengeteget megy\u00fcnk, j\u00e1runk, futunk, eles\u00fcnk, felkel\u00fcnk megint\u2026 Az \u00e9rzelmi intelligenci\u00e1t is csak \u00edgy, az \u00e1t\u00e9l\u00e9sen kereszt\u00fcl lehet n\u00f6velni. Mes\u00e9vel, sz\u00ednj\u00e1t\u00e9kkal, k\u00e9pz\u0151m\u0171v\u00e9szettel, besz\u00e9lget\u00e9ssel, tapasztalattal. K\u00e9rd\u00e9s, hol vannak ezek a gyermek\u00e9vek alatt?!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201e\u00d3ri\u00e1si probl\u00e9m\u00e1nak l\u00e1tom, hogy az iskolai oktat\u00e1st egyre jobban lenyomtuk az \u00f3vod\u00e1kba, ahol pedig az \u00e9rzelmi nevel\u00e9s lenne az \u00e9letfeladat. J\u00e1tszani, \u00e9nekelni, besz\u00e9lgetni, hanc\u00farozni, mozogni, kimenni, a kezeinket haszn\u00e1lni (gy\u00farni, \u00e9rinteni, szagolni), ez lenne a legfontosabb, csakhogy a nevel\u00e9s eltol\u00f3dik az IQ ir\u00e1ny\u00e1ba: feladatlapokat t\u00f6lt\u00fcnk ki m\u00e1r pici korunkban, \u00e9s pr\u00f3b\u00e1ljuk meg\u00e9rtetni az eredm\u00e9nyt. Az iskol\u00e1r\u00f3l m\u00e1r ne is besz\u00e9lj\u00fcnk.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201eEl\u0151ad\u00e1somban t\u00f6bb szinten k\u00f6rbej\u00e1rjuk, hogy mit tehet\u00fcnk az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia fejleszt\u00e9s\u00e9\u00e9rt, milyen apr\u00f3 eszk\u00f6z\u00f6ket tudunk alkalmazni a csal\u00e1dban, a munkahelyen, az \u00f6nnevel\u00e9sben. Szeretn\u00e9nk megmutatni, hogyan lehet nevelni az \u00e9rzelmi intelligencia ter\u00fclet\u00e9n. Te is k\u00e9pes vagy erre, \u00e9s ak\u00e1r m\u00e1r ma este is el tudod kezdeni.\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A t\u00e9m\u00e1ban Uzsalyn\u00e9 dr. P\u00e9csi Rita nevel\u00e9skutat\u00f3val besz\u00e9lgett\u00fcnk, aki cs\u00fct\u00f6rt\u00f6k\u00f6n \u00c9rden tart el\u0151ad\u00e1st. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":82253,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,463,461,462,1608,460],"cikk_cimkek":[3858],"content_flags":[],"content_icons":[],"class_list":["post-82219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-erdmost","category-fontos","category-jobbfent","category-kiemelt","category-mindennapok","category-top","cikk_cimkek-uzsalyne-dr-pecsi-rita"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82219","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82219"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82219\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":82267,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82219\/revisions\/82267"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82253"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82219"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82219"},{"taxonomy":"cikk_cimkek","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cikk_cimkek?post=82219"},{"taxonomy":"content_flags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_flags?post=82219"},{"taxonomy":"content_icons","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_icons?post=82219"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}