{"id":6530,"date":"2020-03-09T08:28:57","date_gmt":"2020-03-09T08:28:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.erdmost.hu\/2020\/03\/09\/rendhagyo-nonap\/"},"modified":"2020-03-09T08:28:57","modified_gmt":"2020-03-09T08:28:57","slug":"rendhagyo-nonap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2020\/03\/09\/rendhagyo-nonap\/","title":{"rendered":"Rendhagy\u00f3 n\u0151nap"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/J2hAVFPjUIg\"  frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Egyik szervez\u0151k\u00e9nt nem k\u00f6nny\u0171 elfogulatlanul \u00edrni a Legyen n\u0151nap &#8211; \u00c9rden! elnevez\u00e9s\u0171 rendezv\u00e9nyr\u0151l, pr\u00f3b\u00e1lok h\u00e1t ink\u00e1bb a k\u00f6z\u00f6ns\u00e9g visszajelz\u00e9seire hagyatkozni. Ilyenkor persze mindig az az els\u0151 k\u00e9rd\u00e9s: mennyien voltak. Nos, nem volt&nbsp;t\u00f6meg, \u00e9s k\u00f6zel sem voltak annyian, mint Pesten a H\u0151s\u00f6k ter\u00e9n, de az \u00f6sszegy\u0171lteket&nbsp;abszol\u00fat meg\u00e9rintette az \u00fczenet. Ami nem is csoda, mert a felsz\u00f3lal\u00f3k, a fell\u00e9p\u0151 t\u00e1ncosok \u00e9s zen\u00e9szek, a s\u00fcti- \u00e9s k\u00e1v\u00e9\u00e1rusok, valamint&nbsp;a v\u00e1rosvezet\u00e9s megjelent k\u00e9pvisel\u0151i mind egy c\u00e9l\u00e9rt j\u00f6ttek el \u00e9s \u00e1lltak ki vas\u00e1rnap d\u00e9lel\u0151tt \u00c9rd f\u0151ter\u00e9n: az \u00e1ldozatok mellett \u00e9s a b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1s ellen.<\/p>\n<p>Cs\u0151zik L\u00e1szl\u00f3, az esem\u00e9ny f\u0151v\u00e9dn\u00f6kek\u00e9nt elmes\u00e9lte mag\u00e1r\u00f3l, hogy annak idej\u00e9n sz\u00e1mos b\u00e1ntalmazott n\u0151t k\u00e9pviselt \u00fcgyv\u00e9dk\u00e9nt, \u00e9s k\u00f6zben azzal kellett szembes\u00fclnie: az \u00e1ldozatok\/ t\u00fal\u00e9l\u0151k kor\u00e1nt sincsenek k\u00f6nny\u0171 helyzetben, m\u00e9g sz\u00e1mos l\u00e9p\u00e9st kell tennie a jogalkot\u00f3knak \u00e9s mindenkinek, aki a ter\u00fcleten dolgozik, hogy eredm\u00e9nyesebben lehessen fell\u00e9pni az \u0151 \u00e9rdek\u00fckben.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Gecse-Simon Orsolya, traumaszak\u00e9rt\u0151 \u00e9s szupervizor, a Szoci\u00e1lis Gondoz\u00f3 K\u00f6zpont int\u00e9zm\u00e9nyvezet\u0151-helyettese 20 \u00e9ves tapasztalatai k\u00f6z\u00fcl osztott meg n\u00e9h\u00e1ny megr\u00e1z\u00f3 momentumot a&nbsp;hallgat\u00f3s\u00e1g\u00e1val. Egy n\u0151r\u0151l, aki b\u00e1r el\u0151bb seg\u00edts\u00e9get k\u00e9rt, k\u00e9s\u0151bb m\u00e9gis hazament (gyerek\u00e9vel egy\u00fctt) b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00f3 f\u00e9rj\u00e9hez \u00e9s egy f\u00e9rfir\u00f3l, aki vasal\u00f3val b\u00e1ntalmazta p\u00e1rj\u00e1t. A kapcsolati er\u0151szak \u00e1ldozatai \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban t\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r is megpr\u00f3b\u00e1lnak kil\u00e9pni a b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00f3 kapcsolatb\u00f3l, a statisztik\u00e1k szerint az \u00f6t\u00f6dik szokott a&nbsp;v\u00e9gs\u0151 lenni. Vagy az\u00e9rt, mert akkor m\u00e1r val\u00f3ban siker\u00fcl kimenek\u00fclnie ebb\u0151l, vagy&nbsp; &#8211; a legrosszabb forgat\u00f3k\u00f6nyv szerint &#8211; nem lesz es\u00e9lye t\u00f6bb k\u00eds\u00e9rletre.<\/p>\n<p>Pint\u00e9r Marianna Manka, akit a gyerekkor\u00e1t\u00f3l fosztottak meg saj\u00e1t sz\u00fclei, \u00e9s aki az\u00f3ta a gyerekb\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1s \u00e9s a csal\u00e1don bel\u00fcli er\u0151szak egyik nagy \u00e9lharcosa lett, saj\u00e1t t\u00f6rt\u00e9net\u00e9t mes\u00e9lte el a t\u00e9ren \u00e1lldog\u00e1l\u00f3knak. Mank\u00e1nak&nbsp;&#8211; b\u00e1r nagyon sokan tudt\u00e1k a k\u00f6rnyezet\u00e9ben \u00e9s a hat\u00f3s\u00e1gokn\u00e1l &#8211; annak idej\u00e9n senki nem seg\u00edtett, senki nem mentette meg, hogy ne tiporj\u00e1k el test\u00e9t, lelk\u00e9t. \u00c9pp ez\u00e9rt a t\u00fal\u00e9l\u0151k jog\u00e1n arra h\u00edvta fel besz\u00e9d\u00e9ben a figyelmet, hogy mindenki cinkos, aki b\u00e1r tud r\u00f3la, m\u00e9gsem tesz semmit a b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1s ellen.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Ha a hivatalos szervek nem hagynak magamra, akkor mindez val\u00f3sz\u00edn\u0171leg nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik meg, legal\u00e1bbis nem ilyen brut\u00e1lisan. Az\u00e1ltal, hogy senki nem tett semmit meger\u0151s\u00edtett\u00e9k bennem azt, amit otthon sulykoltak bel\u00e9m, hogy mindenr\u0151l \u00e9n tehetek, minden az \u00e9n hib\u00e1m.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sevcsik M. Anna a Babagenetika Egyes\u00fcletet az\u00e9rt (is) hozta l\u00e9tre, hogy m\u00e1snak ne kelljen olyan k\u00f6rnyezetben&nbsp;\u00e1t\u00e9lni\u00fck&nbsp;az egyik legnagyobb trag\u00e9di\u00e1t, kisbab\u00e1juk&nbsp;elveszt\u00e9s\u00e9t, ahogy neki kellett: olyan orvossal \u00e9s n\u0151v\u00e9rk\u00e9vel, aki az emp\u00e1ti\u00e1t m\u00e9g csak h\u00edrb\u0151l sem ismeri, \u00e9s aki azt tudta mondani egy ilyen helyzetben, hogy:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>ha \u00e9n itt s\u00edrok, akkor ki is mehetek.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Petrus M\u00e1rta v\u00e9g\u00fcl arr\u00f3l besz\u00e9lt, amikor nem \u00f6k\u00f6llel, hanem szavakkal vernek: a&nbsp;verb\u00e1lis b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1sr\u00f3l, ami l\u00e1thatatlan gyilkosk\u00e9nt tudja al\u00e1\u00e1sni egy n\u0151 \u00f6nbecs\u00fcl\u00e9s\u00e9t, na meg mag\u00e1t a kapcsolatot is.<\/p>\n<p>A besz\u00e9dek mellett persze volt m\u0171sor is: energiabomba robbant a&nbsp;t\u00e9ren JP Dance Company t\u00e1ncosaiban,&nbsp;akik kit\u00f6r\u0151 lelkesed\u00e9ssel ir\u00e1ny\u00edtott\u00e1k a t\u00e1ncpr\u00f3b\u00e1t, majd a flash mobot is.&nbsp;\u00c9s ha \u0151k egyszer kedvet csin\u00e1ltak a t\u00e1nchoz, a Piros cipell\u0151k koncertje ezt az ir\u00e1nyt vitte tov\u00e1bb. Dakos Lill\u00e1\u00e9k f\u00fclbem\u00e1sz\u00f3 \u00e9s t\u00e1ncra perd\u00edt\u0151 zen\u00e9t hoztak a n\u0151napba. V\u00e9g\u00fcl a flash mobon \u00c9rden is elj\u00e1rt\u00e1k azt a t\u00e1ncot, amit vil\u00e1gszerte&nbsp;l\u00e1nyok \u00e9s n\u0151k t\u00e1ncolnak az&nbsp;er\u0151szakkal szembeni fell\u00e9p\u00e9st s\u00fcrgetve.<\/p>\n<p>Az esem\u00e9nyhez teljes sz\u00edvvel, \u00e9s a t\u00f6bbi j\u00f3t\u00e9konys\u00e1gi akci\u00f3jukon megszokott&nbsp;er\u0151bedob\u00e1ssal csatlakozott az Egy szelet a sz\u00edv\u00fcnkb\u0151l csoport \u00e9s a k\u00e1v\u00e9kr\u00f3l, forr\u00f3 csokir\u00f3l gondoskod\u00f3 Bar Coffee. Az Egy szelet a sz\u00edv\u00fcnkb\u0151l tagjai&nbsp;hozt\u00e1k \u00e9s \u00e1rult\u00e1k nagy mosollyal az arcukon a finomabbn\u00e1l-finomabb, saj\u00e1t maguk \u00e1ltal k\u00e9sz\u00edtett s\u00fctem\u00e9nyeket, sz\u00f3rt\u00e1k a sz\u00f3r\u00f3lapokat, tett\u00e9k, amit csak tenni kellett az\u00e9rt, hogy az esem\u00e9ny m\u00e1sik c\u00e9lja is megval\u00f3sulhasson: a k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00f3val egy\u00fctt 125.420 Ft-ot gy\u0171jt\u00f6ttek \u00f6ssze a Szoci\u00e1lis Gondoz\u00f3 K\u00f6zpont b\u00e1ntalmazottak megseg\u00edt\u00e9s\u00e9re ford\u00edthat\u00f3 kr\u00edzisalapja r\u00e9sz\u00e9re.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><drupal-entity data-embed-button=\"gallery\" data-entity-embed-display=\"view_mode:node.full\" data-entity-type=\"node\" data-entity-uuid=\"a9bd6e02-6770-4cc1-b182-247d6082e699\" data-langcode=\"hu\"><\/drupal-entity><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kicsivel t\u00f6bb mint 125 ezer forint gy\u0171lt \u00f6ssze a b\u00e1ntalmazottak kr\u00edzisalapja r\u00e9sz\u00e9re az \u00e9rdi n\u0151napi rendezv\u00e9nyen, ahol a vurstlihangulat vagy m\u00e9zes-m\u00e1zos k\u00f6sz\u00f6nt\u00e9s helyett valami m\u00e1s fogadta az \u00e9rdekl\u0151d\u0151ket. Ki\u00e1ll\u00e1s a csal\u00e1don bel\u00fcli b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1s ellen \u00e9s az \u00e1ldozatok, illetve t\u00fal\u00e9l\u0151k mellett.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"cikk_cimkek":[15],"content_flags":[350,349],"content_icons":[354],"class_list":["post-6530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-erdmost","cikk_cimkek-kozelet","content_flags-erdekes","content_flags-fontos","content_icons-video"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6530","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6530"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6530\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6530"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6530"},{"taxonomy":"cikk_cimkek","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cikk_cimkek?post=6530"},{"taxonomy":"content_flags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_flags?post=6530"},{"taxonomy":"content_icons","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_icons?post=6530"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}