{"id":6294,"date":"2020-02-18T14:22:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T14:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.erdmost.hu\/2020\/02\/18\/jo-hazassag-ot-alapkove\/"},"modified":"2020-02-18T14:22:00","modified_gmt":"2020-02-18T14:22:00","slug":"jo-hazassag-ot-alapkove","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2020\/02\/18\/jo-hazassag-ot-alapkove\/","title":{"rendered":"A j\u00f3 h\u00e1zass\u00e1g \u00f6t alapk\u00f6ve"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Petrus M\u00e1rta a m\u00e9di\u00e1ban, k\u00f6nyvekben, szem\u00e9lyes tan\u00e1csad\u00e1sokon ny\u00fajt seg\u00edts\u00e9get a n\u0151knek \u00e9s f\u00e9rfiaknak, hogyan lehet megmenteni vagy egyszer\u0171en csak jobb\u00e1 tenni h\u00e1zass\u00e1gukat, illetve hogyan lehet talpra \u00e1llni a v\u00e1l\u00e1s ut\u00e1n, ha a szak\u00edt\u00e1s m\u00e9gis elker\u00fclhetetlen. Szombaton az \u00c1ga-Boga vend\u00e9ge volt; a h\u00e1zasp\u00e1rok sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra rendezett j\u00e1t\u00e9kos boresten besz\u00e9lt a h\u00e1zass\u00e1g \u00f6t alapk\u00f6v\u00e9r\u0151l (avagy ment\u0151\u00f6v\u00e9r\u0151l).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5LHfFKlklKs\"  frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Az els\u0151 a helyes kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 \u2013 meghallani \u00e9s meg\u00e9rteni a m\u00e1sik mondand\u00f3j\u00e1t. A m\u00e1sodik a val\u00f3di \u00e9rzelmek kifejez\u00e9se. A harmadik a feladatok \u00e9s szerepek megfelel\u0151 kioszt\u00e1sa.&nbsp;Ma, mikor a n\u0151k is nyolc \u00f3r\u00e1ban dolgoznak, m\u00e1r nem csak az \u0151 feladatuk a h\u00e1ztart\u00e1s ell\u00e1t\u00e1sa, erre egymaga m\u00e1r nem k\u00e9pes. A feladatokat, a csal\u00e1dban bet\u00f6lt\u00f6tt szerepeket meg kell tudnunk besz\u00e9lni egym\u00e1ssal, hogy a f\u00e9rj ne \u00e9rezze azt, hogy elvett\u00e9k t\u0151le a klasszikus f\u00e9rfiszerepet, de az se legyen sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra rossz \u00e9rz\u00e9s, hogy ki kell pakolnia a mos\u00f3g\u00e9pet. Ha ez nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik meg, felborul az egyens\u00faly, amib\u0151l nagyon sok konfliktus \u2013 \u00e9s v\u00e1l\u00e1s \u2013 sz\u00e1rmazik \u2013 jegyezte meg Petrus M\u00e1rta.<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 A negyedik ter\u00fclet az \u00e9deskettesben t\u00f6lt\u00f6tt id\u0151, hogy ne csak a gyereknevel\u00e9s k\u00f6r\u00fcl forogjon minden. Ehhez nem kell felt\u00e9tlen\u00fcl elutazni; t\u00f6lts\u00fcnk egy\u00fctt p\u00e1r \u00f3r\u00e1t este otthon egy poh\u00e1r bor mellett, j\u00e1tsszunk le egy k\u00e1rtyapartit, n\u00e9zz\u00fcnk filmet \u00e9des kettesben, \u00e9s sz\u00e1njunk arra is id\u0151t, hogy \u00e1tbesz\u00e9lj\u00fck a k\u00f6z\u00f6s c\u00e9lokat, \u00e1lmokat, amelyek vel\u00fcnk egy\u00fctt v\u00e1ltoznak, ahogy az \u00e9vek telnek. Hiszen ezek tartanak \u00f6ssze minket: az aktu\u00e1lis \u00e9rzelmeink, szerelm\u00fcnk, szeretet\u00fcnk, \u00e9s a k\u00f6z\u00f6s \u00e1lmaink. Az \u00f6t\u00f6dik ment\u0151\u00f6v pedig a szeretetnyelv \u2013 ez az a m\u00f3d, ahogy egy adott ember kifejezi \u00e9s meg\u00e9li a szeretetet. T\u00f6bbf\u00e9le szeretetnyelv l\u00e9tezik (p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul testi \u00e9rint\u00e9s, elismer\u0151 szavak), \u00e9s minden embern\u00e9l van, amelyik m\u00e9lyebben hat az \u00f6sszes t\u00f6bbin\u00e9l \u2013 \u00e1rulta el a szakember, aki egy j\u00e1t\u00e9kkal is k\u00e9sz\u00fclt: egy teszt seg\u00edts\u00e9g\u00e9vel a boresten r\u00e9sztvev\u0151&nbsp;h\u00e1zasp\u00e1rok megtudhatt\u00e1k, mennyire ismerik a m\u00e1sik szeretetnyelv\u00e9t. Hogy milyen eredm\u00e9nyek sz\u00fclettek, az maradjon a p\u00e1rok titka \u2013 a j\u00e1t\u00e9k mindenk\u00e9pp j\u00f3 tapasztalat volt, r\u00e1ad\u00e1sul k\u00f6z\u00f6s tapasztalat.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hogy mi a j\u00f3 h\u00e1zass\u00e1g titka? Ah\u00e1ny ember, annyi v\u00e9lem\u00e9ny. Az \u00c1ga-Boga Nagycsal\u00e1dosok \u00c9rdi Egyes\u00fclete szombati borestj\u00e9n, amely a h\u00e1zass\u00e1g hete programsorozat\u00e1t z\u00e1rta le, Petrus M\u00e1rta coach besz\u00e9lt arr\u00f3l, hogy szakmai szemmel mit\u0151l m\u0171k\u00f6d\u0151k\u00e9pes egy h\u00e1zass\u00e1g. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"cikk_cimkek":[22],"content_flags":[349],"content_icons":[354],"class_list":["post-6294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-erdmost","cikk_cimkek-erdekes","content_flags-fontos","content_icons-video"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6294"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6294\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6294"},{"taxonomy":"cikk_cimkek","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cikk_cimkek?post=6294"},{"taxonomy":"content_flags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_flags?post=6294"},{"taxonomy":"content_icons","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_icons?post=6294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}