{"id":61706,"date":"2023-04-05T05:30:33","date_gmt":"2023-04-05T03:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/?p=61706"},"modified":"2023-04-05T09:13:08","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T07:13:08","slug":"meg-ket-nap-az-elet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2023\/04\/05\/meg-ket-nap-az-elet\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e9g k\u00e9t nap az \u00e9let F\u00f6ldi Marik\u00e1\u00e9kn\u00e1l, azt\u00e1n mindennek v\u00e9ge"},"content":{"rendered":"

F\u00f6ldi J\u00e1nosn\u00e9 Marika n\u00e9ni \u00e9s a f\u00e9rje, J\u00e1nos, hetven feletti kisnyugd\u00edjasok. Marika r\u00e1kbeteg, otthon \u00e1polja J\u00e1nost, aki \u00e1tesett egy sztr\u00f3kon. Alb\u00e9rletben laknak \u00c9rd hat\u00e1r\u00e1ban. Nemigen mozdulnak ki: J\u00e1nos \u00e1ltal\u00e1ban fekszik, Marika pedig igyekszik havonta egyszer bev\u00e1s\u00e1rolni mindent, amire sz\u00fcks\u00e9g van. Ha ki kell mozdulnia, egy szomsz\u00e9d seg\u00edt neki, mivel gyalog a buszmeg\u00e1ll\u00f3 egy \u00f3r\u00e1nyira van – legal\u00e1bbis egy ilyen id\u0151s embernek.<\/p>\n

Mivel napjaikat otthon t\u00f6ltik, m\u00e9g nagyobb trag\u00e9dia, hogy elfogyott a t\u0171zif\u00e1juk. Ami kev\u00e9ske van, az k\u00f6r\u00fclbel\u00fcl k\u00e9t napra el\u00e9g, r\u00e1ad\u00e1sul fel is kellene hasogatni, amire sem Marika, sem J\u00e1nos nem k\u00e9pes.<\/p>\n

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\u201eItt a k\u00e1lyha, ezzel f\u0171t\u00f6k\u201d – mutatja Marika a kis vask\u00e1lyh\u00e1t. Huszon\u00f6t n\u00e9gyzetm\u00e9teres az eg\u00e9sz h\u00e1z, \u00edgy egyetlen k\u00e1lyha kif\u0171ti a helyis\u00e9geket. A konyh\u00e1ban besz\u00e9lget\u00fcnk, hogy ne \u00e9bressz\u00fck fel J\u00e1nost.<\/p>\n

\u201eMindenem van, csak f\u00e1ra lenne sz\u00fcks\u00e9gem – mutat k\u00f6rbe a konyh\u00e1ban Marika. – Minden nap f\u0151z\u00f6k valamit – p\u00f6rk\u00f6ltf\u00e9l\u00e9t, f\u0151zel\u00e9ket, t\u00e9szt\u00e1t, leveseket, mindent, ami olcs\u00f3. A h\u00fasv\u00e9tra is felk\u00e9sz\u00fcltem: egybes\u00fclt h\u00fas \u00e9s leves lesz.\u00a0 Beosztom a nyugd\u00edjat, l\u00e1tja, m\u00e9g gy\u00fcm\u00f6lcs is van. Ak\u00e1rmilyen dr\u00e1ga is a ban\u00e1n, megveszem a f\u00e9rjemnek, mert annyira szereti\u2026 Alm\u00e1t pedig egy t\u00e1mogat\u00f3 szervezett\u0151l kaptam. Nem lenne nekem semmi bajom, mindent megoldan\u00e9k, ha a saj\u00e1tomban lakhatn\u00e9k\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Nem \u00e9ltek \u0151k mindig ilyen nehezen, a neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gek a hatvanas \u00e9veikben j\u00f6ttek. Sz\u00e9p m\u00e1sf\u00e9l szob\u00e1s lak\u00e1suk volt a f\u0151v\u00e1rosban. J\u00e1nos 26 \u00e9ven \u00e1t taxizott, Marika vezet\u0151 titk\u00e1rn\u0151 volt. V\u00e1llalkoz\u00e1sba fogtak: a h\u00e1zuk pinc\u00e9j\u00e9ben elviteles italm\u00e9r\u00e9st nyitottak, ment is az \u00fczlet. Azt\u00e1n, mint oly sokan, devizahitelt vettek fel, \u00e9s nem b\u00edrt\u00e1k fizetni a r\u00e9szleteket. Elvitte a lak\u00e1st, az aut\u00f3t. Mindent. Alb\u00e9rletr\u0151l alb\u00e9rletre j\u00e1rtak.<\/p>\n

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\u201eEgyik k\u00ednl\u00f3d\u00e1s a m\u00e1sik ut\u00e1n, \u00e9s csak ment a p\u00e9nz\u201d – s\u00f3hajt Marika. Kik\u00f6lt\u00f6ztek \u00c9rdre, de a h\u00e1z, ahol j\u00f3l \u00e9rezt\u00e9k magukat, p\u00e1r \u00e9ve le\u00e9gett. Nem az \u0151 hib\u00e1jukb\u00f3l.<\/p>\n

Azt\u00e1n Marika s\u00falyos beteg lett, r\u00e1kot diagnosztiz\u00e1ltak n\u00e1la. B\u00e1r abb\u00f3l fel\u00e9p\u00fclt, olyan s\u00falyos m\u0171t\u00e9ten esett \u00e1t, hogy nehezen gy\u0151zi a sok munk\u00e1t. J\u00e1nos is megbetegedett, Marika \u00e1polja, vigy\u00e1zza folyamatosan.<\/p>\n

A kis nyugd\u00edjukb\u00f3l ki kell fizetni\u00fck a m\u00e9g fenn\u00e1ll\u00f3 tartoz\u00e1s t\u00f6rleszt\u0151r\u00e9szlet\u00e9t \u00e9s az alb\u00e9rletet, \u00e9s most a lakhat\u00e1suk is vesz\u00e9lybe ker\u00fclt: az alb\u00e9rletben \u00e1prilis v\u00e9g\u00e9ig maradhatnak csup\u00e1n<\/strong><\/em>. A h\u00e1zasp\u00e1r id\u0151s \u00e9lete minden oldalr\u00f3l megrend\u00fclt: az anyagi biztons\u00e1g ut\u00e1n az eg\u00e9szs\u00e9g lett oda, \u00e9s most m\u00e1r a hajl\u00e9ktalans\u00e1g is fenyegeti \u0151ket.<\/p>\n

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Marika m\u00e1r csup\u00e1n egy dologra v\u00e1gyik: hogy beker\u00fclhessenek az \u00e9rdi v\u00e1rosi id\u0151sotthonba. \u201eK\u00f6sz\u00f6n\u00f6m mindenkinek, aki ebben seg\u00edtett. Megj\u00f6tt a pap\u00edr, hogy befogadt\u00e1k a k\u00e9relm\u00fcnket, m\u00e1r csak p\u00e1r orvosi vizsg\u00e1lat van h\u00e1tra. Rem\u00e9lem, nagyon rem\u00e9lem, hogy beker\u00fcl\u00fcnk. Ha nem is egy szob\u00e1ban lesz\u00fcnk\u2026 de legal\u00e1bb valahol lakhatunk\u201d – mondja k\u00f6nnyes szemmel Marika.<\/p>\n

Rokonaik nincsenek? – k\u00e9rdezem. Mint mes\u00e9li, van egy l\u00e1nya, akivel nagyon r\u00e9g megromlott a kapcsolatuk. Egy \u00e9vtizede k\u00fclf\u00f6ld\u00f6n \u00e9l a l\u00e1ny is, az unok\u00e1k is, nem hallottak egym\u00e1s fel\u0151l az\u00f3ta. \u201eEz m\u00e1r \u00edgy marad, nem szeretn\u00e9m bolygatni\u201d – teszi hozz\u00e1, utalva arra: nem tud m\u00e1r t\u00f6bb gondot, f\u00e1jdalmat mag\u00e1ra venni.<\/p>\n

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Marika \u00e9s J\u00e1nos m\u00e9gsem \u00e1ll egyed\u00fcl a vil\u00e1gban, Par\u00f3czai Zolt\u00e1nn\u00e9 Mariann, az Emberi Hang Alap\u00edtv\u00e1ny kur\u00e1tora t\u00e1mogatja \u0151ket, vagy ha \u0151 nem tud valamit elint\u00e9zni, a kapcsolatrendszer\u00e9n kereszt\u00fcl szerez seg\u00edts\u00e9get. \u00cdgy kaptak t\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r is t\u0171zif\u00e1t, a t\u00e9li vas\u00e1rnapokon meleg \u00e9telt. Mariann most is seg\u00edtene, de csak r\u00f6nkf\u00e1t tud szerezni, azt pedig nem tudja felhasogatni az id\u0151s asszony.<\/p>\n

\u201eJ\u00e1nos, szeg\u00e9ny, annyira szereti a meleget, didereg, ha nem f\u0171t\u00f6k\u201d – n\u00e9z alv\u00f3 f\u00e9rj\u00e9re Marika.<\/p>\n

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Mikor kik\u00eds\u00e9r, megcsod\u00e1lom az ajt\u00f3n a h\u00fasv\u00e9ti d\u00edszt. \u201eM\u00e9g utolj\u00e1ra kitettem, gondoltam, a lelkemet megmelengetem vele\u201d – mutat r\u00e1 Marika.<\/p>\n

Miut\u00e1n elb\u00facs\u00faztunk, hosszan integetett ut\u00e1nam a kapub\u00f3l.<\/p>\n

Aki felhasogatott, haszn\u00e1latra k\u00e9sz t\u00fczel\u0151vel tudja seg\u00edteni Marik\u00e1\u00e9kat ak\u00e1r csak p\u00e1r napra is, az \u00c9rdMost facebook-oldal\u00e1n vagy a szerkesztoseg@erdmediacentrum.hu oldalon jelezze, \u00e9s megadjuk Marika el\u00e9rhet\u0151s\u00e9g\u00e9t. Par\u00f3czai Zolt\u00e1nn\u00e9 is k\u00f6sz\u00f6nettel fogadja \u00e9s tov\u00e1bb\u00edtja a felaj\u00e1nl\u00e1sokat a 06(20)949-5744-es telefonsz\u00e1mon.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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