{"id":40654,"date":"2022-05-18T15:18:42","date_gmt":"2022-05-18T13:18:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/?p=40654"},"modified":"2022-05-20T16:59:39","modified_gmt":"2022-05-20T14:59:39","slug":"elni-jo-de-nem-mindegy-kivel-es-hogyan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2022\/05\/18\/elni-jo-de-nem-mindegy-kivel-es-hogyan\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9lni j\u00f3 &#8211; de nem mindegy, kivel \u00e9s hogyan"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe  width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/PLKPttK8zhk?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>Az ifj\u00fas\u00e1gi \u00edr\u00f3 a szerdai tal\u00e1lkoz\u00f3n az \u00c9rdi Telev\u00edzi\u00f3nak elmondta: eddig tizenk\u00e9t reg\u00e9nyt \u00edrt, de nem az\u00e9rt l\u00e1togatott el \u00c9rdre, hogy a m\u0171veir\u0151l besz\u00e9lgessen, hanem egy sokkal fontosabb t\u00e9m\u00e1r\u00f3l: az ember- \u00e9s gesztusismeretr\u0151l, ami nagyon fontos a mai vil\u00e1gban, amikor a gyerekek rengeteget \u00fclnek a sz\u00e1m\u00edt\u00f3g\u00e9p el\u0151tt.<\/p>\n<p>&#8222;Meg kell tan\u00edtani a kamaszoknak, melyik mozdulat, gesztus mit jelent. 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