{"id":3917,"date":"2019-08-06T11:04:09","date_gmt":"2019-08-06T11:04:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.erdmost.hu\/2019\/08\/06\/testverek-feltekenyseg-nelkul\/"},"modified":"2022-03-01T21:34:49","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T21:34:49","slug":"testverek-feltekenyseg-nelkul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2019\/08\/06\/testverek-feltekenyseg-nelkul\/","title":{"rendered":"Testv\u00e9rek, f\u00e9lt\u00e9kenys\u00e9g n\u00e9lk\u00fcl?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><drupal-entity data-align=\"center\" data-embed-button=\"image_embed\" data-entity-embed-display=\"view_mode:media.embed_image_into_article\" data-entity-type=\"media\" data-entity-uuid=\"b49fdee4-183c-44c6-8bc9-0d8ba5017fd2\"><\/drupal-entity><\/p>\n<p>Hogyan legyenek j\u00f3 testv\u00e9rek a gyerekeink, hogyan kezelj\u00fck a civakod\u00e1st, mit tegy\u00fcnk, hogy jobban kij\u00f6jjenek egym\u00e1ssal? Ezekre a k\u00e9rd\u00e9sekre kerest\u00e9k a v\u00e1laszt az Anya-baba Klub keddi tal\u00e1lkoz\u00f3j\u00e1n, ami &#8211; dac\u00e1ra, hogy augusztusban nagyon sokan nyaralnak &#8211; telt h\u00e1zas volt. Nem v\u00e9letlen\u00fcl, hiszen ez a t\u00e9ma azokat is \u00e9rinti, akiknek m\u00e9g nincs m\u00e1sodik (harmadik, negyedik) gyermek\u00fck, de szeretn\u00e9nek kistestv\u00e9rt.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; A nagyobbik gyermekem k\u00e9t \u00e9ves \u00e9s h\u00e1rom h\u00f3napos, egy h\u00f3nap m\u00falva j\u00f6n a kistestv\u00e9r. Sokat besz\u00e9l\u00fcnk err\u0151l, de hogy mivel is j\u00e1r az, hogy m\u00e1r nem lesz egyed\u00fcli gyerek, azzal m\u00e9g nincs tiszt\u00e1ban &#8211; mondta az egyik anyuka. A m\u00e1sik \u00e9desany\u00e1n\u00e1l a h\u00e9t\u00e9ves nagyobb gyermekn\u00e9l alv\u00e1sprobl\u00e9m\u00e1k jelentkeztek a pici megsz\u00fclet\u00e9se ut\u00e1n; a f\u00e9lt\u00e9kenys\u00e9g semmiben nem nyilv\u00e1nul meg, im\u00e1dja a kistestv\u00e9rt, \u00f6lelgeti, gondoskodik r\u00f3la, de az alv\u00e1sgondok jelz\u00e9s\u00e9rt\u00e9k\u0171ek lehetnek. Van olyan csal\u00e1d is, ahol nem a testv\u00e9r sz\u00fclet\u00e9se ut\u00e1n jelentkezik a testv\u00e9rf\u00e9lt\u00e9kenys\u00e9g, hanem a t\u00edz\u00e9ves l\u00e1ny \u00e9s a hat\u00e9ves fi\u00fa piszk\u00e1lja egym\u00e1st folyton, \u00e9s erre keresik a megold\u00e1st.<\/p>\n<p>Selmeczy-Veres Ildik\u00f3, a Kapcsol\u00f3d\u00f3 Nevel\u00e9s Egyes\u00fclet oktat\u00f3ja, pszichol\u00f3gus szerint nagyon fontos, hogy a gyerek \u00e9rezze, hogy \u0151t szeretik, \u00e9s ki kell alak\u00edtani a csak r\u00f3la sz\u00f3l\u00f3 egy\u00e9ni id\u0151t.<\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VAEDXjcU128\"  frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2019\/08\/06\/ne-legyen-tobbe-testverhaboru\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hallgassa meg<\/a> a Az \u00c9rd FM 101.3 K\u00f6zt\u00fcnk marad c\u00edm\u0171 m\u0171sor\u00e1ban <span class=\"audio-wrapper\">elhangzott interj\u00faj\u00e1t is Selmeczy-Veres Ildik\u00f3val.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Az Anya-baba Klub augusztusban m\u00e9g egy <a href=\"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2019\/07\/17\/minden-hetre-egy-talalka\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pikniket<\/a> tart, szeptemberben pedig a Parkv\u00e1rosi K\u00f6z\u00f6ss\u00e9gi H\u00e1zban tal\u00e1lkoznak majd a klub tagjai. Hogy mi lesz a t\u00e9ma, arr\u00f3l \u00d6lvedi R\u00e9ka klubvezet\u0151 besz\u00e9lt az \u00c9rdMostnak.<\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Fq-ccmNyHdc\"  frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A testv\u00e9rf\u00e9lt\u00e9kenys\u00e9g volt a t\u00e9m\u00e1ja az Anya-baba Klub keddi tal\u00e1lkoz\u00f3j\u00e1nak. Az \u00e9desany\u00e1knak Selmeczy-Veres Ildik\u00f3, a Kapcsol\u00f3d\u00f3 nevel\u00e9s szak\u00e9rt\u0151je, pszichol\u00f3gus &#8211; maga is k\u00e9t gyermek \u00e9desanyja &#8211; tartott el\u0151ad\u00e1st a t\u00e9m\u00e1ban, majd v\u00e1laszolt az anyuk\u00e1k k\u00e9rd\u00e9seire. Vide\u00f3val \u00e9s hanganyaggal!<\/p>","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"cikk_cimkek":[8],"content_flags":[349,348],"content_icons":[],"class_list":["post-3917","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-erdmost","cikk_cimkek-eletmod","content_flags-fontos","content_flags-top"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3917","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3917"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3917\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29460,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3917\/revisions\/29460"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3917"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3917"},{"taxonomy":"cikk_cimkek","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cikk_cimkek?post=3917"},{"taxonomy":"content_flags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_flags?post=3917"},{"taxonomy":"content_icons","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_icons?post=3917"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}