{"id":2794,"date":"2019-05-05T10:30:32","date_gmt":"2019-05-05T10:30:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.erdmost.hu\/2019\/05\/05\/amikor-faj-szeretet\/"},"modified":"2019-05-05T10:30:32","modified_gmt":"2019-05-05T10:30:32","slug":"amikor-faj-szeretet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2019\/05\/05\/amikor-faj-szeretet\/","title":{"rendered":"Amikor f\u00e1j a &#8222;szeretet&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Egy sz\u00fcl\u0151 sokf\u00e9lek\u00e9ppen &#8222;m\u00e9rgezheti&#8221; a gyermek\u00e9t, azaz rombolhatja annak szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g\u00e9t, \u00e9s b\u00e1r sokszor nem is tudatosan teszi, de ett\u0151l m\u00e9g megfosztja \u0151t a&nbsp;biztons\u00e1gos k\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9st\u0151l \u00e9s a gondtalan gyermekkort\u00f3l. Azzal, hogy ink\u00e1bb csak kritiz\u00e1lnak, sosem dics\u00e9rnek, sokszor b\u00e1nt\u00f3 megjegyz\u00e9seket tesznek r\u00e1juk, kig\u00fanyolj\u00e1k \u0151ket, mindig csak parancsolnak \u00e9s sosem k\u00e9rnek, nem engedik, hogy a gyermek kimutassa \u00e9rz\u00e9seit, t\u00fal sok felel\u0151ss\u00e9get h\u00e1r\u00edtanak r\u00e1juk m\u00e1r kiskorukban vagy \u00e9ppen hogy korl\u00e1tozz\u00e1k azt, hogy saj\u00e1t sz\u00e1rnyukat bontogass\u00e1k. \u00c9s &#8222;persze&#8221; sokszor a fizikai, szexu\u00e1lis b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1st\u00f3l sem riadnak vissza.<\/p>\n<p>A m\u00e1sik oldalon pedig a gyerekek legt\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r nem is tudatos\u00edtj\u00e1k magukban, hogy nem norm\u00e1lis az, ami k\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00f6tt\u00fck zajlik, mert egyr\u00e9szt ebben szocializ\u00e1l\u00f3dtak, m\u00e1sr\u00e9szt meg az egyik legnehezebb feladat&nbsp;sz\u00e1mukra \u00e9ppen az, hogy sz\u00fcleikkel kapcsolatos d\u00fch\u00fcket meg\u00e9lj\u00e9k, az ehhez kapcsol\u00f3d\u00f3 b\u0171ntudat miatt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hogy pontosan mivel is &#8222;m\u00e9rgezheti&#8221; meg a sz\u00fcl\u0151 a porontya gyermekkor\u00e1t, mi\u00e9rt teszi ezt, \u00e9s van-e ki\u00fat ak\u00e1r a sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra, ak\u00e1r a gyermeke sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra, err\u0151l k\u00e9rdezt\u00fck Mirk Zs\u00f3fia pszichol\u00f3gus, coach, medi\u00e1tort.<\/p>\n<div class=\"ckeditor-html5-audio\"><span class=\"audio-wrapper\"><label class=\"audio-label\">A m\u00e9rgez\u0151 sz\u00fcl\u0151k &#8211; interj\u00fa Mirk Zs\u00f3fi\u00e1val<\/label><\/p>\n<p><audio controls=\"controls\" data-entity-type=\"file\" data-entity-uuid=\"3e671976-305a-4de6-8ab8-56096a340933\" src=\"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/M%C3%A9rgez%C5%91%20sz%C3%BCl%C5%91k_Mirk%20Zs%C3%B3fia.mp3\">&nbsp;<\/audio><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vannak sz\u00fcl\u0151k, akik, ha adnak is szeretetet, az csak f\u00e1j. Mert b\u00e1ntanak. Vagy sz\u00f3val vagy tettel. Egy statisztika szerint Magyarorsz\u00e1gon \u00e9vente 20.000 gyermek \u00e9l \u00e1t valamilyen b\u00e1ntalmaz\u00e1st, de a sz\u00e1mok magasabbak lehetnek, hiszen sok eset rejtett marad. Pedig az \u00edgy kapott sebek a gyermeket \u00e9lete v\u00e9g\u00e9ig elk\u00eds\u00e9rik. 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