{"id":1659,"date":"2019-02-14T08:30:12","date_gmt":"2019-02-14T08:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.erdmost.hu\/2019\/02\/14\/jo-hazassagon-erdemes-dolgozni-zuroson-pedig-muszaj\/"},"modified":"2022-03-01T21:33:13","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T21:33:13","slug":"jo-hazassagon-erdemes-dolgozni-zuroson-pedig-muszaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2019\/02\/14\/jo-hazassagon-erdemes-dolgozni-zuroson-pedig-muszaj\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8222;A j\u00f3 h\u00e1zass\u00e1gon is \u00e9rdemes dolgozni, a z\u0171r\u00f6s\u00f6n pedig musz\u00e1j!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Petrus M\u00e1rta, akit a Csal\u00e1dh\u00e1l\u00f3 egy\u00e9ni k\u00fcl\u00f6nd\u00edj\u00e1ra jel\u00f6ltek (err\u0151l kor\u00e1bban <a href=\"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2019\/02\/13\/ket-erdi-jeloltje-van-csaladhalo-dijnak\/\">itt <\/a>\u00edrtunk), coach-k\u00e9nt is sz\u00e1mos tapasztalatot szerzett a t\u00e9m\u00e1ban. Tudja, milyen probl\u00e9m\u00e1k mer\u00fclhetnek fel egy&nbsp;p\u00e1rkapcsolatban, \u00e9s hogyan lehet azokat megoldani. Ezeket&nbsp;\u00edrta meg leg\u00fajabb k\u00f6nyv\u00e9ben, a H\u00e1zass\u00e1gi ment\u0151\u00f6vekben, egy tucat, a gyakorlatban is haszn\u00e1lhat\u00f3 \u00f6tlettel \u00e9s p\u00e9ld\u00e1val.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A szerz\u0151 szerint a val\u00f3di szeretet, a kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3, a szeretetnyelvek, az egy\u00fctt t\u00f6lt\u00f6tt k\u00f6z\u00f6s id\u0151 \u00e9s a szerepek \u00e9s feladatok egym\u00e1s k\u00f6zti feloszt\u00e1sa \u00e9s tiszt\u00e1z\u00e1sa egy j\u00f3l m\u0171k\u00f6d\u0151 kapcsolat \u00f6t alappill\u00e9re, de azt mondja, ezek k\u00f6z\u00fcl is a (megfelel\u0151) kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3, valamint a szerepek \u00e9s a feladatok harmonikus eloszt\u00e1s\u00e1nak hi\u00e1nya&nbsp;szokta a leggyakrabban a kapcsolatok v\u00e1ls\u00e1g\u00e1t el\u0151id\u00e9zni. M\u00e1rta azt tan\u00e1csolja&nbsp;a f\u00e9rfiaknak, hogy sokkal jobban figyeljenek&nbsp;t\u00e1rsaik ig\u00e9nyeire, amikor&nbsp;p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul a n\u0151k a gyerekek ut\u00e1n visszamennek&nbsp;dolgozni. &#8222;Ez egy nagyon vesz\u00e9lyes id\u0151szak, mert ilyenkor a n\u0151k k\u00f6nnyed\u00e9n kil\u00e9pnek, \u00e9s azt mondj\u00e1k, hogy nincs vissza\u00fat&#8221;, figyelmeztet Petrus M\u00e1rta, hiszen a gyermekkel egy\u00fctt t\u00f6lt\u00f6tt \u00e9vek ut\u00e1n hirtelen k\u00edv\u00fclr\u0151l is (jobb esetben) elismer\u00e9seket, meger\u0151s\u00edt\u00e9seket kapnak a n\u0151k, hogy j\u00f3 az, amit csin\u00e1lnak, \u00e9s ez\u00e9rt sokan r\u00e1j\u00f6nnek, k\u00e9pesek r\u00e1, hogy egyed\u00fcl is talpra \u00e1lljanak, \u00e9s magukra v\u00e1llalj\u00e1k&nbsp;a csal\u00e1dfenntart\u00f3 szerep\u00e9t<\/p>\n<p>Petrus M\u00e1rt\u00e1t az \u00c9rd Fm 101.3 K\u00f6zt\u00fcnk marad c\u00edm\u0171 m\u0171sor\u00e1ban k\u00e9rdezt\u00fck a k\u00f6nyvr\u0151l \u00e9s 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