Napokon bel\u00fcl \u00e1tadj\u00e1k a 2020\/21-es tan\u00e9v v\u00e9gi bizony\u00edtv\u00e1nyokat az \u00e1ltal\u00e1nos- \u00e9s k\u00f6z\u00e9piskol\u00e1s di\u00e1koknak, b\u00e1r a tanul\u00f3k \u00e9vk\u00f6zi eredm\u00e9nyei folyamatosan nyomon k\u00f6vethet\u0151k az e-Kr\u00e9ta rendszerben, de a bizony\u00edtv\u00e1nyoszt\u00e1s komoly lelki megterhel\u00e9st okozhat a gyermekeknek.<\/p>\n
Mint arra a police.hu felh\u00edvja a figyelmet, el\u0151fordulhat, hogy az \u00e9rdemjegyek nem t\u00fckr\u00f6zik a sz\u00fcl\u0151k, vagy a gyermek saj\u00e1t mag\u00e1val szemben t\u00e1masztott elv\u00e1r\u00e1sait, emiatt a gyermek szoronghat, f\u00e9lelmet \u00e9rezhet, s\u0151t sajnos sz\u00e1mtalan p\u00e9lda al\u00e1t\u00e1masztja, hogy nem mer hazamenni az eredm\u00e9nyekkel szembes\u00fclve. Tart a sz\u00fcl\u0151i felel\u0151ss\u00e9gre von\u00e1st\u00f3l, dorg\u00e1l\u00e1st\u00f3l, ez\u00e9rt ink\u00e1bb elk\u00f3borol, vil\u00e1gg\u00e1 megy b\u00e1nat\u00e1ban, sz\u00e9gyen\u00e9ben, vagy, hogy elker\u00fclje a csal\u00e1di perpatvart. Hogy ez lehet\u0151s\u00e9g szerint soha ne fordulhasson el\u0151, hogy egyetlen gyermek se k\u00f3boroljon c\u00e9ltalanul \u00e9s elveszve, hogy egyetlen sz\u00fcl\u0151 se \u00e9lje \u00e1t a \u201ehov\u00e1 t\u0171nhetett?\u201d, \u201ehol keressem?\u201d bizonytalans\u00e1g\u00e1t \u00e9s a sz\u00edvszor\u00edt\u00f3 aggodalmat, fogadj\u00e1k meg a Pest Megyei Rend\u0151r-f\u0151kapit\u00e1nys\u00e1g B\u0171nmegel\u0151z\u00e9si Oszt\u00e1ly\u00e1nak tan\u00e1csait:<\/p>\n
Besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s, biztons\u00e1g <\/strong>\u2013 Oldja a fesz\u00fclts\u00e9get \u00e9s megnyugtat\u00f3, ha a gyermekben tudatos\u00edtj\u00e1k, egy-egy, az elv\u00e1rtn\u00e1l, vagy a k\u00edv\u00e1natosn\u00e1l rosszabb \u00e9rdemjegy nem a vil\u00e1g v\u00e9ge, seg\u00edts\u00e9ggel, szorgalommal orvosolhat\u00f3 \u00e9s jav\u00edthat\u00f3. Biztons\u00e1got ad, ha a gyermek tiszt\u00e1ban van azzal, az ir\u00e1nta \u00e9rzett sz\u00fcl\u0151i szeretetet nem befoly\u00e1solja az iskolai eredm\u00e9nye. \u00c9rzelmi t\u00e1mogat\u00e1ssal tudass\u00e1k vele, hogy a csal\u00e1d – ak\u00e1r szomor\u00fas\u00e1ggal, t\u00f6rt\u00e9netesen egy rosszul siker\u00fclt bizony\u00edtv\u00e1nnyal k\u00fczd, ak\u00e1r \u00f6r\u00f6m \u00e9ri – mellette \u00e1ll.<\/p>\n T\u00fcrelem<\/strong> \u2013 Ne sajn\u00e1lj\u00e1k az id\u0151t az \u0151szinte, a sz\u00fcl\u0151-gyermek bizalmi kapcsolatot kialak\u00edt\u00f3, megszil\u00e1rd\u00edt\u00f3 \u00e9s elm\u00e9ly\u00edt\u0151 besz\u00e9lget\u00e9sekre! A gyermek gondolatait, v\u00e9lem\u00e9ny\u00e9t meg\u00e9rt\u00e9ssel hallgass\u00e1k! A sz\u00fcl\u0151, a csal\u00e1d, mint els\u0151dleges szocializ\u00e1ci\u00f3s t\u00e9nyez\u0151 mindenkor p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul szolg\u00e1l gyermeke sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra, \u00edgy ha az anya\/apa b\u00e9ket\u0171r\u0151, ezt a mint\u00e1t l\u00e1tva \u00e9s lek\u00e9pezve a gyermek is hasonl\u00f3 szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9gjegyekkel b\u00edr majd. Teremtsenek lehet\u0151s\u00e9get kigondolni \u00e9s \u00e1tbesz\u00e9lni az egy-egy \u00e9rdemjegy kijav\u00edt\u00e1s\u00e1ra vonatkoz\u00f3 feladatokat, gyakorl\u00e1st, sz\u00fcl\u0151i seg\u00edts\u00e9get, ez hozz\u00e1j\u00e1rulhat a f\u00e9lelem \u00e9s az elkeseredetts\u00e9g old\u00e1s\u00e1hoz, azt \u00fczeni: „Egy\u00fctt megoldjuk, hisz nem vagy egyed\u00fcl!”<\/p>\n Szeretet<\/strong> \u2013 Ha egy gyermek tiszt\u00e1ban van azzal, hogy t\u00f6bb szempontb\u00f3l is biztons\u00e1got ny\u00fajt\u00f3 csal\u00e1dja, otthona van, nem fontolgat sz\u00f6k\u00e9st egy m\u00e9lab\u00fas pillanatban. Tudatos\u00edts\u00e1k, hogy az ir\u00e1nta t\u00e1pl\u00e1lt szeretet\u00fck felt\u00e9tel n\u00e9lk\u00fcli, \u00e9s nem \u00e9rdemjegyekhez k\u00f6t\u00f6tt. Hogy veszeked\u00e9s helyett a probl\u00e9ma k\u00f6z\u00f6s megold\u00e1sa a c\u00e9l \u00e9s b\u00e1rmi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt is, mindig hazav\u00e1rj\u00e1k!<\/p>\n Ha gyermek\u00fck m\u00e9gis elsz\u00f6kik, elt\u0171nik, rendk\u00edv\u00fcl fontos, hogy mihamarabbi megtal\u00e1l\u00e1sa \u00e9rdek\u00e9ben, halad\u00e9ktalanul \u00e9rtes\u00edts\u00e9k a rend\u0151rs\u00e9get az ismert 112 seg\u00e9lyh\u00edv\u00f3 telefonsz\u00e1mon.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hamarosan \u00e1tadj\u00e1k a bizony\u00edtv\u00e1nyokat a di\u00e1koknak, de t\u00f6bb tanul\u00f3 az eredm\u00e9nyekkel szembes\u00fclve nem mer hazamenni, mert tart a sz\u00fcl\u0151i felel\u0151ss\u00e9gre von\u00e1st\u00f3l. 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