{"id":146326,"date":"2026-09-29T15:50:59","date_gmt":"2026-09-29T13:50:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/?p=146326"},"modified":"2026-09-29T15:50:59","modified_gmt":"2026-09-29T13:50:59","slug":"hetven-eve-joban-rosszban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2026\/09\/29\/hetven-eve-joban-rosszban\/","title":{"rendered":"Hetven \u00e9ve j\u00f3ban-rosszban"},"content":{"rendered":"

A fiatal Mohos Lajos hazafel\u00e9 s\u00e9t\u00e1lt \u00c9rdligeten. Kiskatona volt, elt\u00e1voz\u00e1son. A S\u00e1rd \u00e9s a N\u00e9ra utca sark\u00e1n, a kis patakn\u00e1l \u00f6sszefutott egy fiatal l\u00e1nnyal, T\u00f3th Katalinnal. Ez a t\u00f6bb mint hetven \u00e9vvel ezel\u0151tti pillanat mindkettej\u00fck eml\u00e9kezet\u00e9ben \u00e9l\u00e9nken \u00e9l. Nem is csoda: eg\u00e9sz k\u00e9s\u0151bbi \u00e9let\u00fckre kihat\u00e1ssal volt.<\/p>\n

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A fiatal Lajos \u00e9s feles\u00e9ge, Katalin<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Mindketten \u00c9rden, r\u00e1ad\u00e1sul egym\u00e1s k\u00f6zel\u00e9ben laktak, m\u00e9gsem ismert\u00e9k egym\u00e1st kor\u00e1bban. A fi\u00fanak m\u00e1r a sz\u00fclei is \u00e9rdiek voltak. Apj\u00e1t \u00c9rdr\u0151l hurcolt\u00e1k el m\u00e1lenkij robotra a Szovjetuni\u00f3ba, de azon szerencs\u00e9sek egyike volt, aki hazat\u00e9rt. M\u00e9g egy kis f\u00f6ldet is kapott Batt\u00e1n. A l\u00e1ny \u00e9s csal\u00e1dja a vil\u00e1gh\u00e1bor\u00fa alatt k\u00f6lt\u00f6z\u00f6tt ki Sashalomr\u00f3l, a bomb\u00e1z\u00e1sok ut\u00e1n. Katalin m\u00e9g eml\u00e9kszik a lovaskocsira, ami \u00c9rdre hozta \u0151ket.<\/p>\n

A k\u00e9t fiatal a patakparton besz\u00e9dbe elegyedett, c\u00edmet cser\u00e9lt, \u00e9s elindult a levelez\u00e9s \u00c9rd \u00e9s a laktanya k\u00f6z\u00f6tt. A besz\u00e9lget\u00e9sekb\u0151l szerelem, majd h\u00e1zass\u00e1g lett: 1956. szeptember 29-\u00e9n k\u00f6t\u00f6tte \u00f6ssze az \u00e9let\u00e9t a tizenkilenc \u00e9ves T\u00f3th Katalin \u00e9s a huszonharmadik \u00e9v\u00e9ben j\u00e1r\u00f3 Mohos Lajos.<\/p>\n

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A hetvenedik h\u00e1zass\u00e1gi \u00e9vfordul\u00f3j\u00e1t \u00fcnnepl\u0151 h\u00e1zasp\u00e1r<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Az \u00e9rdligeti templomban esk\u00fcdtek. N\u00e1sz\u00fatjuk nem volt, az esk\u00fcv\u0151 ut\u00e1n k\u00e9t nappal m\u00e1r Lajos \u00e9desapj\u00e1nak battai f\u00f6ldj\u00e9n szedt\u00e9k a kukoric\u00e1t. Katalin eml\u00e9kszik, hogy sokat dolgoztak ott. Volt, hogy olyan meleg volt, hogy m\u00e1s lehet\u0151s\u00e9g h\u00edjj\u00e1n a hatalmas t\u00f6klevelek al\u00e1 h\u00faz\u00f3dtak be a forr\u00f3s\u00e1g el\u0151l.<\/p>\n

K\u00f6z\u00f6s \u00e9veik nem k\u00f6nnyen indultak. Nekik kellett el\u0151teremteni\u00fck a k\u00f6z\u00f6s otthont. Sem vagyon, sem hitel nem seg\u00edtette \u0151ket. Katalin is, Lajos is a Magyar Gyapj\u00fafon\u00f3 \u00e9s Sz\u00f6v\u0151gy\u00e1rban (r\u00e9gebbi nev\u00e9n L\u00f3den Poszt\u00f3gy\u00e1rban) dolgozott a XI. ker\u00fcletben, Lajos k\u00e9s\u0151bb \u00e1tment a Zom\u00e1nchuzalgy\u00e1rba, \u00e9s Katalin is k\u00f6vette \u0151t 1960-ban. Harminc \u00e9vig dolgozott huzalzom\u00e1ncoz\u00f3k\u00e9nt. Kem\u00e9ny munka volt, f\u0151leg, mert \u00e9jjel is dolgozniuk kellett. A f\u00e9rj\u00e9vel v\u00e1ltott m\u0171szakban j\u00e1rtak, hogy mindig legyen valaki a gyerekekkel. K\u00e9t kisl\u00e1nyuk sz\u00fcletett, Zsuzsa \u00e9s Kati. Akkoriban m\u00e9g nem volt gyes, csak p\u00e1r hetes sz\u00fcl\u00e9si szabads\u00e1g, a kisl\u00e1nyokra egy id\u0151sebb helyi asszony vigy\u00e1zott, hiszen sem \u00c9rden, sem a gy\u00e1rban nem volt b\u00f6lcs\u0151de.<\/p>\n

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Ilyen k\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00e9nyek k\u00f6z\u00f6tt v\u00e1gtak bele az \u00e9p\u00edtkez\u00e9sbe. Ahogy Katalin fogalmaz: saj\u00e1t magunk ragasztottuk, mint a fecsk\u00e9k<\/em>. Egyik\u0151j\u00fck fizet\u00e9s\u00e9b\u0151l \u00e9ltek, a m\u00e1sikb\u00f3l \u00e9p\u00edtkeztek a R\u00e1bca utc\u00e1ban. A mai napig ott \u00e9lnek az egyik unok\u00e1jukkal, akit kiskora \u00f3ta \u0151k nevelnek. A k\u00e9t l\u00e1nyukt\u00f3l h\u00e9t unoka \u00e9s hat d\u00e9dunoka sz\u00fcletett.<\/p>\n

\u201e1957-ben vett\u00fck a telket. K\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00f6tt\u00fcnk csak \u00fcres telkek \u00e9s nyaral\u00f3k voltak. K\u00f6zm\u0171 semmi. A szomsz\u00e9d h\u00e1za k\u00f6zelebb volt a m\u0171\u00fathoz, neki volt villanya, t\u0151le vezett\u00fck \u00e1t, persze fizett\u00fcnk is \u00e9rte. Viz\u00fcnk k\u00fatb\u00f3l volt. Mikor bevezett\u00e9k a vizet, hozt\u00e1k a villanyt is, \u00e9s gombam\u00f3dra n\u0151ttek ki a h\u00e1zak\u201d \u2013 mes\u00e9lte Katalin.<\/p>\n

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Lajos maga \u00e1sta ki a pinc\u00e9t, cs\u00e1k\u00e1nyozott, talicsk\u00e1zott. Az alapoz\u00e1st, a falakat a k\u0151m\u0171ves h\u00fazta fel. Egy szoba-konyha-el\u0151szoba meg\u00e9p\u00edt\u00e9s\u00e9re volt p\u00e9nz\u00fck, a fiatalabb l\u00e1ny, Kati is m\u00e1r 12 \u00e9ves volt, mire meg\u00e9p\u00fclt a m\u00e1sodik szoba \u00e9s a f\u00fcrd\u0151. A kis Kati sok\u00e1ig a r\u00e1csos \u00e1gyban aludt, mert nem volt hely\u00fck m\u00e1sik \u00e1gyra. Lajos azt mes\u00e9li, hatalmas boldogs\u00e1g volt, mikor elk\u00e9sz\u00fcltek a hozz\u00e1\u00e9p\u00edt\u00e9ssel. Akkora lett villany, v\u00edz \u00e9s g\u00e1z is.<\/p>\n

Pihen\u00e9sre, utaz\u00e1sra nem volt lehet\u0151s\u00e9g\u00fck, igaz, Katalin mindig is otthon \u00e9rezte a legjobban mag\u00e1t, rokonl\u00e1togat\u00f3ban, ismer\u0151s\u00f6kt\u0151l is hamar hazav\u00e1gyott. Kor\u00e1n nyugd\u00edjba mehetett, szabadidej\u00e9t az unok\u00e1kkal t\u00f6lt\u00f6tte, akik nemcsak kiskorukban, hanem most, feln\u0151ttk\u00e9nt is sokat l\u00e1togatj\u00e1k a nagysz\u00fcl\u0151ket.<\/p>\n

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Katalin \u00e9s a l\u00e1nya, Kati<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

K\u00e9rdezem \u0151ket, hetven\u00e9ves h\u00e1zass\u00e1gukban mi volt a legnehezebb? Katalin azt mondja, a sp\u00f3rol\u00e1s. Az \u00e9p\u00edtkez\u00e9sre, b\u0151v\u00edt\u00e9sre folyamatosan f\u00e9lre kellett tenni\u00fck. A hozz\u00e1\u00e9p\u00edt\u00e9sn\u00e9l szerettek volna k\u00f6lcs\u00f6nt felvenni. Elfogyott a p\u00e9nz\u00fck, kellett volna a tet\u0151re, de a hitelint\u00e9zetben olyan felt\u00e9teleket szabtak, amelyeket nem tudtak teljes\u00edteni. \u201eNagyon fel voltam h\u00e1borodva. A gazdagoknak bezzeg j\u00e1r a k\u00f6lcs\u00f6n, a szeg\u00e9nyeknek, akiknek sz\u00fcks\u00e9g\u00fck volna r\u00e1, nem\u2026 K\u00e9s\u0151bb h\u00edvtak, menj\u00fcnk be, megkapjuk a hitelt, de akkor m\u00e1r \u00e9n mondtam nemet. Ap\u00f3somt\u00f3l kaptunk k\u00f6lcs\u00f6n 17 ezer forintot, r\u00e9szletekben visszafizett\u00fck. \u00cdgy siker\u00fclt befejezni a h\u00e1zat.\u201d<\/p>\n

Az, hogy kib\u00edrt\u00e1k a neh\u00e9z id\u0151szakokat is, az egym\u00e1s ir\u00e1nt tan\u00fas\u00edtott t\u00fcrelm\u00fcknek k\u00f6sz\u00f6nhet\u0151. \u201eMindenkinek megvan a maga term\u00e9szete, nekem is, a Pap\u00e1nak is. Vita n\u00e9lk\u00fcl nem ment, de a t\u00fcrelem, az seg\u00edtett\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Lajos szerint az is nagyon fontos, hogy minden, amij\u00fck csak volt \u00e9s van, az k\u00f6z\u00f6s. \u201eMikor a telket vett\u00fck, az \u00fcgyv\u00e9d k\u00e9rdezte, hogy a h\u00f6lgy mit keres itt velem. Mondtam, hogy \u0151 a feles\u00e9gem, \u00e9s amit vesz\u00fcnk, az a kett\u0151nk nev\u00e9n lesz. \u00cdgy is lett.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hetven \u00e9v apr\u00f3 eml\u00e9kei elevenednek meg a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s\u00fcnk alatt. Nevetnek, k\u00f6z\u00f6s kir\u00e1ndul\u00e1sokat id\u00e9znek fel h\u00e1rmasban, Katalin, Lajos, \u00e9s a kisebbik l\u00e1nyuk, Kati. K\u00e9rdezem, hogyan \u00fcnneplik a jeles \u00e9vfordul\u00f3t. Kati mondja, hogy a sz\u00fclei nem szeretik a nagy felhajt\u00e1st, \u00fcnnepl\u00e9st, de az\u00e9rt lesz s\u00fctem\u00e9ny, k\u00f6sz\u00f6nt\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Ahogy mes\u00e9lik, nekik a mindennapok is \u00fcnnepek. Katalin bent tev\u00e9kenykedik, s\u00fct-f\u0151z. H\u00e1zass\u00e1guk kezdete \u00f3ta \u00edgy van ez: a benti dolgokat Katalin int\u00e9zi, a kertet Lajos, aki most is kij\u00e1r a kertbe d\u00e9lel\u0151tt\u00f6nk\u00e9nt.<\/p>\n

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\u201eHa bent k\u00e9ne lennem eg\u00e9sz nap, v\u00e9gem is volna. Adok a madaraknak friss vizet, meglocsolgatok, kap\u00e1lgatok. Nekem ez napi mozg\u00e1snak el\u00e9g. Ha kezd f\u00e1jni a derekam, le\u00fcl\u00f6k egy kicsit. A teraszon is megpihenek, azt\u00e1n bent is\u201d \u2013 mondja nevetve. L\u00e1tszik, hogy korukhoz k\u00e9pest akt\u00edvan \u00e9lnek a r\u00e9gi h\u00e1zban, amihez annyi eml\u00e9k f\u0171zi \u0151ket.<\/p>\n

K\u00f6zeledik az eb\u00e9did\u0151, elb\u00facs\u00fazunk, mosolyogva k\u00eds\u00e9rnek a kapuhoz. A kerben hetven \u00e9v \u00f6sszeszokott mozdulat\u00e1val \u00e1llnak egym\u00e1s mell\u00e9 egy fot\u00f3 erej\u00e9ig. J\u00f3 \u00e9rz\u00e9s n\u00e9zni \u0151ket, l\u00e1tni a kedves mosolyt Lajos b\u00e1csi arc\u00e1n, \u00e9s Kati n\u00e9ni k\u00e9k szem\u00e9nek fiatalos villan\u00e1s\u00e1t. Rem\u00e9lj\u00fck, a nyolcvanadik h\u00e1zass\u00e1gi \u00e9vfordul\u00f3jukon is k\u00f6sz\u00f6nthetj\u00fck \u0151ket.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mohos Lajos \u00e9s T\u00f3th Katalin 1956. szeptember 29-\u00e9n k\u00f6t\u00f6tt\u00e9k \u00f6ssze az \u00e9let\u00fcket. Az \u00e9rdi h\u00e1zasp\u00e1r hetven \u00e9v neh\u00e9zs\u00e9geir\u0151l \u00e9s boldog pillanatair\u00f3l mes\u00e9lt nek\u00fcnk. 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