{"id":12058,"date":"2021-02-05T08:13:26","date_gmt":"2021-02-05T08:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.erdmost.hu\/2021\/02\/05\/nincs-ezzel-semmi-baj-amig-egymasra-tudunk-nezni\/"},"modified":"2021-02-05T08:13:26","modified_gmt":"2021-02-05T08:13:26","slug":"nincs-ezzel-semmi-baj-amig-egymasra-tudunk-nezni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/2021\/02\/05\/nincs-ezzel-semmi-baj-amig-egymasra-tudunk-nezni\/","title":{"rendered":"Nincs ezzel semmi baj, am\u00edg egym\u00e1sra tudunk n\u00e9zni"},"content":{"rendered":"

A n\u00e9pszer\u0171 szakember a Minisztereln\u00f6ki Hivatal protokollf\u0151n\u00f6kek\u00e9nt dolgozott 1987-t\u0151l 1999-ig. Az\u00f3ta k\u00f6nyveket \u00edr \u00e9s el\u0151ad\u00e1sokat tart a viselked\u00e9skult\u00far\u00e1r\u00f3l, a protokollr\u00f3l \u00e9s a k\u00f6zszerepl\u00e9sr\u0151l. <\/strong>
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Milyen benyom\u00e1sokat \u0151riz a j\u00e1rv\u00e1ny els\u0151 hull\u00e1m\u00e1r\u00f3l? <\/strong>
\nAmikor a v\u00edrus megjelent, sokan nem vett\u00e9k komolyan. A k\u00f6zponti int\u00e9zked\u00e9sekre pedig – k\u00f6telez\u0151 maszkviselet, t\u00e1vols\u00e1gtart\u00e1s, v\u00e1s\u00e1rl\u00e1si id\u0151 \u2013 a szok\u00e1sos magyar mentalit\u00e1ssal reag\u00e1ltunk. Betartottuk, de \u00e1g\u00e1ltunk ellene. Gyakran hallottam, hogy r\u00e1sz\u00f3ltak valakire, mert nem j\u00f3l viselte a maszkot. Az egyik lak\u00f3 megk\u00e9rt, hogy ne sz\u00e1lljak be a liftbe, pedig csak fert\u0151tlen\u00edt\u0151vel akartam \u00e1tt\u00f6r\u00f6lni a gombt\u00e1bl\u00e1t.  <\/p>\n

Gyorsan v\u00e1ltozott a protokoll? <\/strong>
\nEleinte nehezen alakult. Sokan akartak kezet fogni \u00e9s sokan k\u00e9nytelenek voltak elh\u00e1r\u00edtani ezt, ami n\u00e9mi der\u00fclts\u00e9get v\u00e1ltott ki. Pr\u00f3b\u00e1lkoztak a l\u00e1bfej\u00fct\u00f6get\u00e9ssel, de mivel megingott az egyens\u00faly, f\u00e9l\u0151 volt, hogy valaki hanyatt esik. Azt\u00e1n j\u00f6tt a k\u00f6ny\u00f6k \u00f6ssze\u00fct\u00f6get\u00e9se, ami szint\u00e9n komikusan hatott. <\/p>\n

Kialakultak \u00faj trendek a viselked\u00e9sben? <\/strong>
\nTrendekr\u0151l nem besz\u00e9ln\u00e9k, azt hiszem, hamarabb elm\u00falik a pand\u00e9mia, mint ahogy kialakuln\u00e1nak szok\u00e1sok. Sz\u00e1momra \u00e9rdekes, hogy a k\u00e9zfog\u00e1s, puszi, \u00f6lel\u00e9s elmarad\u00e1sa jelenti a legnagyobb gondot, mert mindig azt mondom, hogy a szemkontaktus egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt is fontosabb. Bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gosan r\u00e1n\u00e9zni, b\u00f3lintani, inteni, esetleg p\u00e1r sz\u00f3t sz\u00f3lni sokkal emberibb, mint a szem\u00e9lytelen k\u00e9zfog\u00e1s. Velem is el\u0151fordult, hogy valaki kezet ny\u00fajtott, amire reflexszer\u0171en reag\u00e1ltam, majd mosolyogva abbahagytuk a gesztust. Nincs ezzel semmi baj, am\u00edg egym\u00e1sra tudunk n\u00e9zni. <\/p>\n

Van, ami pozit\u00edvan v\u00e1ltozott?<\/strong>
\nA k\u00f6sz\u00f6n\u00e9s hangs\u00falyosabb szerepet kapott. Ahogy a pand\u00e9miavicc mondja: megtanultunk kezet mosni, most tanuljunk meg k\u00f6sz\u00f6nni. Az ut\u00f3bbi \u00e9vekben szomor\u00faan l\u00e1ttam, hogy az emberek leszoktak r\u00f3la. Most viszont, mivel m\u00e1s kapcsolatfelv\u00e9teli forma nem maradt, lelkesebben \u00fcdv\u00f6zlik egym\u00e1st. H\u00e1la az \u00e9gnek! <\/p>\n

Mit \u00e9rdemes szem el\u0151tt tartani az online interj\u00fak, videokonferenci\u00e1k sor\u00e1n? <\/strong>
\nAki a virtu\u00e1lis t\u00e9rben dolgozik, annak kicsit filmrendez\u0151v\u00e9 kell v\u00e1lnia. Figyelnie kell a h\u00e1tt\u00e9rre, a ruh\u00e1zat\u00e1ra, megjelen\u00e9s\u00e9re, s\u0151t, a megvil\u00e1g\u00edt\u00e1sra, mert a vizu\u00e1lis inform\u00e1ci\u00f3 v\u00e9gtelen\u00fcl fontos. Nem nyer\u0151, ha a h\u00e1tt\u00e9rben rendetlens\u00e9g, mosatlan ed\u00e9nyek, pajkos cica vagy m\u00e1s, a t\u00e9m\u00e1nkhoz egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nem ill\u0151 dolog l\u00e1that\u00f3. \u00c9n mindig be\u00e1ll\u00edhttps:\/\/erdmost.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/business-blog-session-cover-img-03.jpg a k\u00e9pet, miel\u0151tt l\u00e9trej\u00f6n a kapcsolat. <\/p>\n

Milyen legyen az a k\u00e9p?<\/strong>
\nHa h\u00e1tra d\u0151l az ember, leesik a tok\u00e1ja. Ha a n\u0151 nem takarja a v\u00e1ll\u00e1t, tereb\u00e9lyesebbnek fog t\u0171nni. Aki pedig forg\u00f3sz\u00e9kbe \u00fcl \u00e9s k\u00e1csongva-billegve besz\u00e9l, fel\u00fcletes benyom\u00e1st fog tenni. Amit szint\u00e9n megfigyeltem egy zoom-konferenci\u00e1n: az el\u0151ad\u00f3 besz\u00e9lt, majd mondat k\u00f6zben hirtelen meg\u00e1llt, oldalra n\u00e9zett, azt\u00e1n vissza \u2013 ugyanis a bubor\u00e9kban megjelen\u0151 hozz\u00e1sz\u00f3l\u00e1sokat figyelte. Ez el\u00e9g sz\u00f6rny\u0171. Azt javaslom, hogy a bejelentkez\u00e9seket, k\u00e9rd\u00e9seket egy koll\u00e9ga kezelje, ne az el\u0151ad\u00f3.  <\/p>\n

Mi marad a j\u00e1rv\u00e1nykult\u00far\u00e1b\u00f3l, ha v\u00e9get \u00e9r a j\u00e1rv\u00e1ny? <\/strong>
\nA v\u00e9d\u0151olt\u00e1sok ut\u00e1n feltehet\u0151en javulni fog a helyzet. Vill\u00e1mgyorsan visszat\u00e9r\u00fcnk a k\u00e9zfog\u00e1shoz, elmehet\u00fcnk \u00e9tterembe, nyaralni, sz\u00e1llod\u00e1ba, de azt hiszem, a k\u00e9zfert\u0151tlen\u00edt\u0151 ott marad a t\u00e1sk\u00e1nkban. Sose lehet tudni.
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Megv\u00e1ltoztatott-e minket a pand\u00e9mia? Hogyan viselked\u00fcnk a k\u00f6z\u00e9rtben, a mag\u00e1n\u00e9letben, a metr\u00f3n, a munkahelyen \u00e9s a hivatalos esem\u00e9nyeken? Megmaradnak-e az \u00faj viselked\u00e9si form\u00e1k, ha v\u00e9get \u00e9r a j\u00e1rv\u00e1ny? G\u00f6r\u00f6g Ibolya protokollszak\u00e9rt\u0151t k\u00e9rdezt\u00fck. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"cikk_cimkek":[15],"content_flags":[350,349],"content_icons":[],"class_list":["post-12058","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-erdmost","cikk_cimkek-kozelet","content_flags-erdekes","content_flags-fontos"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12058","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12058"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12058\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12058"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12058"},{"taxonomy":"cikk_cimkek","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/cikk_cimkek?post=12058"},{"taxonomy":"content_flags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_flags?post=12058"},{"taxonomy":"content_icons","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erdmost.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content_icons?post=12058"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}